Cares of this Life

 

There is always a struggle in life.  There is joy.  There is pain. 

There is busyness.  There are many cares of life.

And then, there is You, Lord.

Luke 12:22-34

And He said to His disciples, “For this reason I say to you, do not worry about your life, as to what you will eat; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the ravens, for they neither sow nor reap; they have no storeroom nor barn, and yet God feeds them; how much more valuable you are than the birds

Luke 21:34-35

“Be on guard, so that your hearts will not be weighted down with dissipation and drunkenness and the worries of life, and that day will not come on you suddenly like a trap; for it will come upon all those who dwell on the face of all the earth.

HCSB “Be on your guard, so that your minds are not dulled from carousing, drunkenness, and worries of life, or that day will come on you unexpectedly”

NKJV “But take heed to yourselves, lest your hearts be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness, and cares of this life, and that Day come on you unexpectedly.”

 Romans 12:1-2

Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.

Colossians 3:2

Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.

Hebrews 12:1

Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

1 John 2:15-17

Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

Happy New Year!

 Our Christmas season break was very, very good.  We simplified and it was quite relaxing and enjoyable.  Purposefully we planned our big family gathering at the very beginning of our break and intentionally made decisions to create a low stress time together.

We actually made it through our entire December, never missing a day when we had a short advent devotional as a family.  God was present and we enjoyed worshiping throughout our time at home together.  We watched many movies, played games almost daily, and had time to be ourselves without the normal pressures of everyday life.

Regular routines begin next week and while I don't enjoy the idea of the busyness that it brings, I feel rested and mostly prepared for the challenge that awaits.

***

Originally, I started this blog to document and share my husband's cancer journey.  When he decided he wanted to remain private and not share his details, I proceeded by sharing my point of view through our cancer journey.  Writing is very therapeutic for me.   

Later it became somewhat of an attempt to share my reality of faith in life, but it lost some of its purpose and wasn't very cohesive.  I'm not sure how much of my blog was for a larger audience and how much was simply helpful to myself.  Only God knows what the future holds.  

 If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out their offense.  If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back.  Matthew 18:15 NLT

On a lighter note

 We carved pumpkins tonight!  It's a tradition we didn't always participate in, but it has become a fun family event. 

The boys created faces with theirs -learning tips and tricks of carving.  While our older girls got creative.  They made a cross on one and a dove on another.

We'll set them out on the front step on Halloween when we hand out goody bags.

The kids all helped to make the goody bags.  We buy colorful sandwich baggies and fill them with a gospel tract, candy, and a small toy:

The gospel tract is because we want to shine the light of Jesus to all who come to our door.

The candy because it is the typical expectation.  This year we chose dum-dum suckers.  I noticed last year several kiddos were excited to have a sucker vs chocolate in their bags.

The toy because we know what it means to have food allergies. I don't want any kid to get something from our house and not be able to enjoy at least one item they get.  This year it is a small, rainbow-colored spring with a smiley face on it.  Last year we did a variety pack of things like sticky hands, slap bracelets, etc.

It's fun to hand out the goody bags.  The kids are often surprised that they get a baggy of things and not just a piece of candy.  We've also gotten to know several of our neighbors this year, so we will recognize more of them too, and that is also fun!

Continuing to Simplify

The more I simplify the things around me, the more I am noticing the ability to slow down and take in each moment.

I didn't anticipate that.  It has been an unexpected blessing.

This afternoon I played a game of cards with my son and was able to be fully present with him.  Often times, I am mentally an energizer bunny, but today it was just the two of us and our card game.  No mental interruptions or random thoughts.  It was strange and really nice.

I was recently inspired to simplify my social media.  I unfollowed several accounts on my feed.  Some, I think were only "followed" because my fat fingers hit the wrong button while scrolling.  Other pages that I unfollowed share content that I like to read and learn about, but at this time in my life were just cluttering my brain with information I couldn't put into application right now.

Taking away the mental clutter is freeing.  More and more I can focus on what is most important.  And the phrase that is beginning to take up more living space in my brain is this one:

Live for God's Glory.

I suspect God is teaching me more about this phrase and what it will mean in my life. 

What matters most?

 This year has been a growing year thus far.  I am learning to pay closer attention to my needs and limits, as well as the needs and limits of my family.  

I have often heard about priorities and balancing them.  But I've been learning something a level deeper than that. I serve, often to my own detriment.  I serve because it brings me joy.  But when I serve to the point that I am diminishing my own abilities to do and be what I desire for my family and myself, that's a problem.

Most specifically, I am giving my gardening and food preservation ideals a seat on the back burner.  I enjoy those things.  It is beneficial for my family when I do them.  Our economy and food supply issues in our country give my hobbies even more of a benefit than just being healthy.

The big 'BUT', is that it takes time and energy out of me and my day.  While I could keep up with my hobbies and still do the other things that I do, it taxes me.

I'm taking the concept to all areas of my life.  In homeschooling, we are part of two homeschool groups.  We won't participate in all the things; we will participate in some.  I'm writing fewer blog posts, spending less time on my phone, and more time on what matters most.

Priorities do not dictate my choices; they guide me in knowing which choices help or hinder me in living this life that the Lord has given.  I'm the type of person who can see both sides of the coin.  

Choices can be challenging for me if I don't have a strong opinion regarding the choice before me.  So, I am learning to prayerfully consider, "What matters most?"  Is that thing worth the time and energy spent to accomplish it?  Is it where God is leading?  Even if it is a 'good' thing, is it the right timing for our family?  

The best part is, I am finding that I have more time to pray, I can think about things with more clarity, and it is easier to say "no" or cut out that thing that hinders more than it helps.

Humble Pie can be thought provoking

 I did wrong.  I ate my humble pie and asked for forgiveness.

While talking to God about it before I decided to eat my humble pie...debating if and how to go about it, I asked Him:  Lord, why can I act so foolish sometimes?  Why can't my sin be celebrated?

Out of context, that sounds quite atrocious.  No, I don't want my sin celebrated, or any sin for that matter.

In our culture, this entire month has been dedicated to the celebration of a specific sin and those who do not celebrate and openly accept it are considered bigots, haters, and worse.  

So, it would be much easier to not eat my humble pie and have those I've wronged celebrate my actions and choices instead.  

Can you imagine?  "Oh, I see I did something you didn't approve of, but your approval isn't what matters, come and celebrate my sin with me!  I chose it and all that matters is that my choices don't get condemned"  ....even writing this is utterly ridiculous and I must shake my head and laugh at myself.

Why are some sins culturally acceptable and other sins not?  Culture willingly condemns the sin that hurts others.  (murder, theft, etc.)

However, sins that blatantly defy God are often celebrated.  Humanity rebels against the idea of a God that keeps us accountable to His standards. (pride, sexual immorality, lusting for the pleasures of this world, idol worship, etc.)

Jesus loved the sinner and invited them to be made new.  He invited them to leave their sin behind.  He never once affirmed the sin or celebrated it.  When we eat our humble pie and allow Him to work in our lives, we are made new.  We are made more like Him and that is a wonderful thing.