My girl graduated kindergarten this week. I can't believe that the school year is over already. For the first time ever, I got to attend two events in a row for my daughter where I was privileged just to be her mommy and not involved in managing or running the event. It was awesome! She got my full attention and we had a great day!
Another awesome event happened this past week also...my entire family attended church together for the first time since chemo! I felt whole and complete worshipping alongside my hubby and knowing the children were learning in their classes too.
His 6 month check up is coming up in a few weeks. I'm not nervous so far. It is coming to mind a lot more often now that it is closer. We'll deal with what we have to and I know God will get us through whatever comes our way. I have no expectations of bad news though.
I've been leading a bible study at work. We're studying the Women of the Bible. It has been really neat to have discussions and imagine what life was like for those women back then. I pray that God uses it for His glory because I truly don't know what I'm doing besides staying in the Word and prayer as we discuss. I have a book that we're following as a guide. So far I know that God's presence has been felt. I also know when I've been ill prepared and tried doing it on my own...that always feels like a lacking day when that happens.
Friday, May 25, 2012
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
What God is Doing
God has been busy, that is for sure! I'm grateful for His constant presence in my life, even when I'm too blind to see it. The past few months I have felt lost spiritually, like someone put a blindfold on me and I couldn't make heads or tails of my surroundings. I couldn't tell what God was doing or what was going on. I also was discouraged and that was affecting my faith too.
In the midst of all that darkness, God was still there, still growing me and teaching me. Christians often call opportunities for life changes "doors" that God opens or closes. In the darkness of waiting, I searched for any open doors. In that search, didn't find any open doors. God hasn't called me to any new roles in life, but He did allow me to look through windows and glimpse the reality of who I am and what He wants for me. I learned that some options were not true options for me. I learned that some of my self-doubt was unwarranted and untrue. I learned to have confidence in where He has me now and in the tasks He has given me to accomplish.
I don't know what the future holds and I definitely don't have life figured out. I do have a better view of life right now and I am grateful for the things that God has done. Even when I didn't see Him working, He was there right with me. He even used my aimless searching to guide my husband to a new job!
Never give up on God. He won't give up on you!
In the midst of all that darkness, God was still there, still growing me and teaching me. Christians often call opportunities for life changes "doors" that God opens or closes. In the darkness of waiting, I searched for any open doors. In that search, didn't find any open doors. God hasn't called me to any new roles in life, but He did allow me to look through windows and glimpse the reality of who I am and what He wants for me. I learned that some options were not true options for me. I learned that some of my self-doubt was unwarranted and untrue. I learned to have confidence in where He has me now and in the tasks He has given me to accomplish.
I don't know what the future holds and I definitely don't have life figured out. I do have a better view of life right now and I am grateful for the things that God has done. Even when I didn't see Him working, He was there right with me. He even used my aimless searching to guide my husband to a new job!
Never give up on God. He won't give up on you!
Friday, April 27, 2012
Long time, no write
Hello again. I'm still here. Sorry it has been so long since I've written. I've been in a spiritual place that I couldn't label. A place that I couldn't analyze or figure out and so, I didn't know how to blog about it.
I know God is at work in my life. I can't really tell you what I am learning right now because I guess I haven't finished this lesson yet, whatever it is. I am growing more mature and discovering more of who I am in the different roles I must play. For a while I was looking to see what God was doing. Searching for answers and solutions that He hadn't given yet. I got impatient and felt a little lost, perhaps like a lamb who wanders astray and suddenly finds itself in unfamiliar territory. Maybe God doesn't want me to analyze spiritual lessons so much. I will never understand Him completely and my experiences, while they may help you along your journey, are not the same as yours and will not give you a short-cut to the "finish line" of developing your relationship with the Lord.
My husband's health continues to improve. He got some new shoes that really seem to help with the nerve pain. The shoes aren't made for helping, just for supporting the foot properly, especially for those who work long hours on their feet. The nerve pain and tingling in his feet has improved, but is still there. We are thankful for the improvement. He is able to do most things without his feet stopping him. :)
I know God is at work in my life. I can't really tell you what I am learning right now because I guess I haven't finished this lesson yet, whatever it is. I am growing more mature and discovering more of who I am in the different roles I must play. For a while I was looking to see what God was doing. Searching for answers and solutions that He hadn't given yet. I got impatient and felt a little lost, perhaps like a lamb who wanders astray and suddenly finds itself in unfamiliar territory. Maybe God doesn't want me to analyze spiritual lessons so much. I will never understand Him completely and my experiences, while they may help you along your journey, are not the same as yours and will not give you a short-cut to the "finish line" of developing your relationship with the Lord.
My husband's health continues to improve. He got some new shoes that really seem to help with the nerve pain. The shoes aren't made for helping, just for supporting the foot properly, especially for those who work long hours on their feet. The nerve pain and tingling in his feet has improved, but is still there. We are thankful for the improvement. He is able to do most things without his feet stopping him. :)
Friday, April 6, 2012
Update
The results of the 3 month x-ray were good. No growth in the lymph nodes, so as the oncologist put it, this was a 'good news' appointment. We'll see how the next appointment goes. That is the big one. At 6 months we'll do a full CT scan and get a better view of whatever is or isn't going on. I don't have any expectations. It's too far away and I'm not thinking about it. It's just on the calendar at this point.
I've made baby steps in spending time with the Lord. We're talking again and I'm reading my bible again. Not as regular as it was before, but I will get there. I have really been working on being aware of my heart-attitude and praying that I would approach life humbly and not pridefully. I know that I can't figure life out on my own and I don't want to deceive myself into trying. I also don't want to react to any issues I'm facing from a selfish point of view. I truly do want to do the will of God because I know that will result in the best possible outcome. I can't do any of this of my own power. So, I've been praying little heartfelt requests and giving thanks as I recognize His blessings as my day goes on.
I've made baby steps in spending time with the Lord. We're talking again and I'm reading my bible again. Not as regular as it was before, but I will get there. I have really been working on being aware of my heart-attitude and praying that I would approach life humbly and not pridefully. I know that I can't figure life out on my own and I don't want to deceive myself into trying. I also don't want to react to any issues I'm facing from a selfish point of view. I truly do want to do the will of God because I know that will result in the best possible outcome. I can't do any of this of my own power. So, I've been praying little heartfelt requests and giving thanks as I recognize His blessings as my day goes on.
Friday, March 30, 2012
Discouraged
I am a glutton for punishment. I watched 'My Sister's Keeper' tonight. It was a good movie. I knew it would be an emotional one and almost didn't watch it, but I'm not sad that I did.
The past several weeks have been intense for me. Discouragement that bordered on depression was becoming part of my view of life and I couldn't figure it out. The no-brainer is that I haven't been spending my time with God. That alone always opens me up for difficulties. The thing was, I knew that I was neglecting that quiet time and I wasn't motivated to change it. It was very dark and didn't seem very rational to me.
I'm positive that a spiritual battle is waging over my life right now, and only after asking for prayer has the darkness lifted. It is still there, but I am not buried beneath the weight of it anymore. I don't know that I have ever faced discouragement like this before. Things in my job and at home seemed so monumental when normally I just deal with them and move on. I grew weary of fighting the good fight. Maybe it is part of dealing with the grieving process of surviving cancer with my husband. Maybe it is soley a spiritual growth issue. Whatever it is, it isn't over.
This thing I cannot face on my own. It confuses me, twists my thoughts, defeats my will to fight. I don't know why I am so stubborn and prideful sometimes. I am far from perfect and I also know that I am not as near to worthless as the devil would have me believe. Knowing isn't enough. Doing isn't enough. It must be a heart battle. I cannot overcome on my own power. God has to do something in me. I need to allow him to do whatever he needs to do. Even though I feel like I should be done persevering, I need Him to give me rest and teach me to live in that rest as I continue following Him.
The past several weeks have been intense for me. Discouragement that bordered on depression was becoming part of my view of life and I couldn't figure it out. The no-brainer is that I haven't been spending my time with God. That alone always opens me up for difficulties. The thing was, I knew that I was neglecting that quiet time and I wasn't motivated to change it. It was very dark and didn't seem very rational to me.
I'm positive that a spiritual battle is waging over my life right now, and only after asking for prayer has the darkness lifted. It is still there, but I am not buried beneath the weight of it anymore. I don't know that I have ever faced discouragement like this before. Things in my job and at home seemed so monumental when normally I just deal with them and move on. I grew weary of fighting the good fight. Maybe it is part of dealing with the grieving process of surviving cancer with my husband. Maybe it is soley a spiritual growth issue. Whatever it is, it isn't over.
This thing I cannot face on my own. It confuses me, twists my thoughts, defeats my will to fight. I don't know why I am so stubborn and prideful sometimes. I am far from perfect and I also know that I am not as near to worthless as the devil would have me believe. Knowing isn't enough. Doing isn't enough. It must be a heart battle. I cannot overcome on my own power. God has to do something in me. I need to allow him to do whatever he needs to do. Even though I feel like I should be done persevering, I need Him to give me rest and teach me to live in that rest as I continue following Him.
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Contentment
Well, I think I've attained the goal of being able to wait on the Lord. Now, if I could only be patient and stay content in my circumstances. Have you ever just wished for a change, but God says "no", or at the very least, "not yet"? I've been there lately and it is so hard! The good news is I am not stressing over how to make change happen. The bad news is that I have struggled to be happy and content with where I am.
I keep reminding myself that "whatever I do, do it as unto the Lord" and also to count my blessings because I can't deny that God has blessed me in many ways. My husband has a t-shirt that says, "Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional." Well, I have made a choice work on growing up spiritually, but I sure wish it came more naturally and without so much struggle! God must have a never-ending supply of patience. I know that I must test it on a regular basis in my struggle between flesh and spirituality!
As a side note, our 3-month follow up and first chest x-ray since chemo is coming up soon. I'm not really stressed over it, I have some questions and mostly I'm just interested to learn more of what the doctor has to say about the healing process and progressing from chemo to being healthy again. I did have a nagging fear in the back of my mind for a while and I asked a few people for prayer. I am feeling much more at peace again. I don't think I will ever forget what it feels like to live through cancer. I've been trying to write about our experiences...it is hard to relive those moments. I pray that we never have to face them in real life again.
I keep reminding myself that "whatever I do, do it as unto the Lord" and also to count my blessings because I can't deny that God has blessed me in many ways. My husband has a t-shirt that says, "Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional." Well, I have made a choice work on growing up spiritually, but I sure wish it came more naturally and without so much struggle! God must have a never-ending supply of patience. I know that I must test it on a regular basis in my struggle between flesh and spirituality!
As a side note, our 3-month follow up and first chest x-ray since chemo is coming up soon. I'm not really stressed over it, I have some questions and mostly I'm just interested to learn more of what the doctor has to say about the healing process and progressing from chemo to being healthy again. I did have a nagging fear in the back of my mind for a while and I asked a few people for prayer. I am feeling much more at peace again. I don't think I will ever forget what it feels like to live through cancer. I've been trying to write about our experiences...it is hard to relive those moments. I pray that we never have to face them in real life again.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
The struggle in the wait...
Waiting on the Lord is such a different way of life to me. I am used to stressing about all the decisions for my tommorow's and worrying over whether or not I made the right choices that day. Basically, analyzing and second-guessing everything.
Now, I am trusting God for my tomorrow's. I am realizing that second-guessing myself only hurts me. It's okay to review my day and note choices that I could have done better and note specific ways I could do better next time, but it isn't okay for me to stress over the unknown possibilities or results of some choices. It has been said and done, for better or worse that day. There is only repentence, forgiveness and learning. Not giving into condemning myself for mere possible negative results.
I'm finding that being in this place of resting in the Lord has opened me up to new attacks on my peace in God. I am now facing discouragement and self-doubt in ways I never had before. I have more insecurities than I ever imagined. I am vulnerable because I am refusing to take control from God. Vulnerability allows the Lord to reach me when I read his word and look for him in my situations. I notice so much more the involvement he has in my life. I also notice more all my defects. Reminding myself of the promises of God and how he thinks of me is so important now. I need that reassurance and to remember his perspective because mine is flawed. It is what gets me past the attacks of insecurity and doubt and focuses me on the Lord.
Now, I am trusting God for my tomorrow's. I am realizing that second-guessing myself only hurts me. It's okay to review my day and note choices that I could have done better and note specific ways I could do better next time, but it isn't okay for me to stress over the unknown possibilities or results of some choices. It has been said and done, for better or worse that day. There is only repentence, forgiveness and learning. Not giving into condemning myself for mere possible negative results.
I'm finding that being in this place of resting in the Lord has opened me up to new attacks on my peace in God. I am now facing discouragement and self-doubt in ways I never had before. I have more insecurities than I ever imagined. I am vulnerable because I am refusing to take control from God. Vulnerability allows the Lord to reach me when I read his word and look for him in my situations. I notice so much more the involvement he has in my life. I also notice more all my defects. Reminding myself of the promises of God and how he thinks of me is so important now. I need that reassurance and to remember his perspective because mine is flawed. It is what gets me past the attacks of insecurity and doubt and focuses me on the Lord.
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