Living the Journey

"...but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us." Romans 5:3-5

I watched my daughter live out the words of this scripture. She recently gave herself a challenging goal to achieve.  We supported her and prayed for her.  We took the role of on-looker and cheerleaders as we let her journey this adventure.

Her anxiety reached new heights and she struggled to meet the requirements that came up along the way.  Still, she pushed herself to continue.  She struggled through each step until she had persevered to the finish line.

Unfortunately, reaching the finish line didn't end with the kind of success she had hoped for.  We are so proud of her.  She let herself be vulnerable.  She didn't let challenges stop her and she never quit, no matter how hard it got.  She didn't achieve the results she hoped for, but the lessons and the maturity she developed along the way are priceless!

We had discussions about trusting God with the outcome, and just living the journey He gave her to live.  We talked of open doors and closed doors, and accepting them.  And when the worst thing that could have happened did, she wasn't devastated or crushed.  She was thankful for the journey and the many things she learned along the way.

She learned more of who she is, what she likes, what things fit her personality and abilities best.  She learned more about trusting her Lord and Savior.  She learned some new skills that can be used in other situations.  She watched and felt God show up for her, even if the outcome wasn't the one she wanted.

She practiced perseverance.  She developed character, and that character showed her hope in her heavenly Father.